What to Say to the Friend Who Can’t Commit. The next time you’re set to go out, be clear about what time you’re leaving and let her know you will not wait for her. You can say something like: “We’d love to have you join us, but we’re leaving right at 7:00. If you’re not there by that time but want to join us later, feel free to
I always cry when plans are cancelled, it’s even gotten as bad as really intensive panic attacks. The quick change will absolutely spike my anxiety and throw off my day. I don’t lash out at my friends, I always try to seem kind and nonchalant about this quick dismissive change of plan. Inside it impacts me so much though, and I know itAlthough I don’t cancel plans on the last minute to give her a dose of her own medicine, I started NOT making plans with her unless it’s a group thing. In that way, even if she cancels on the last minute, I can still do as planned, without her. She’s frustrated that “I seem to be very busy lately”, but my response is : Yes, I am. FkNZwk.